Vows and Psychological Healing

The Benedictine monastic devotes him or herself to a lifelong journey of service characterized by Obedience, Stability and "Conversatio Morum", or continual change and growth. To modern ears and eyes, these vows seem all but incomprehensible. Yet the Rule has remained alive because it creates an almost ideal structure for spiritual and personal growth. Indeed, wherever the Rule has been followed, there has been great revival among its adherents. To a post-modern world, disillusioned with materialism and technocracy, open to mystical transcendent experiences, the Rule has a uniquely contemporary appeal.
Not the least of The Rule's appeal is its attractiveness as a guide for psychological healing. As a therapist, I look for the quality of readiness, or Conversatio in my clients. If one is not open to change, wants to excuse his actions or blame someone else, therapy is usually futile and frustrating for all involved. However, if openness to change is present, if one has determined to remain stable in the face of the current crisis, and has a mindset of obedience to Christ, then therapy becomes a rewarding and even amazing process of growth and development. Not surprisingly, these are the very characteristics that Benedict requires of his monks: Obedience, Stability and Conversatio Morum.